Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Happy Halloween!

Unfortunately, his little halloween hat doesn't really fit his head. But we did what we could to be festive. (Actually, he had matching socks but they succumbed to an eruptive diaper changing incident...)
And finally, a rare but unobstructed view of Silas' sweet face. You'll notice they've removed the IV from his head and put it in his arm instead. But as of this afternoon, he does have a feeding tube fed through his nose and into his belly because he's still learning how to feed from the bottle. (Actually, every time I try to feed him he gets so comfortable he falls asleep...)

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

In our arms

Silas is now 5 days old - and things are generally continuing to improve for him (and us!). The big news is that he got taken off the respirator so we've been able to hold him! He is still working pretty hard to breathe - but he is much happier not having a huge tube in his mouth and down his throat.

He's also been eating some breast milk from a bottle and digesting it fairly well. Matt and I have both had the opportunity to change a poopy diaper - though mine fell off soon after (guess that just means Matt will be the expert diaper changer in our household!!).
Silas did come down with a bit of a fever last night - so he is back on antibiotics and they've taken a blood culture to determine if it is an infection. You'll notice his IV has moved to a vein in his head, mostly because a belly button IV can't stay in for more than 3 days and is an infection risk itself. The nurses have decided his room is the 'big boy's club' because there is another baby in there that actually makes Silas look small (if you can imagine that). He is over 13 pounds!

The video below shows a little of what Silas' temporary home looks like - and also how much he enjoys his pacifier. In imagining Silas' first days, I used to feel very strongly about not introducing pacifiers or bottles or anything before we had successfully mastered breastfeeding. But none of that little stuff really matters anymore. We'll get there.

No real talk on when Silas will be coming home yet. I guess the average hospital stay for babies with MAS (Meconeum Aspiration Syndrome) is 18 days. But we find comfort in how well they are taking care of our baby in the NICU and our time with him every day is so uplifting.

We continue to appreciate the outpouring of love and warm wishes we've received from everyone - thank you so much.
love,
Julie, Matt & Silas

Sunday, October 28, 2007

The Silas Story

Silas James Gidley was born on Thursday October 25 at 7:43 p.m.
Weighing 10 pounds, 10 ounces
Measuring 22 inches long

Yes - he is a big, strong boy! But he also comes into this world with quite a story. So I thought I'd start at the beginning...

I went into early labor at home on Monday evening, around 9pm. It started out slowly (though I was up all night with the contractions) and continued throughout the day on Tuesday. We went to the hospital late Tuesday evening - but got sent home after 4 hours because I wasn't progressing fast enough.
After another 12 hours of labor at home, we went to my doctor's office - and were still only dilated to 2 cm. But they sent us on to the hospital (which I was very thankful for!). They gave me a little boost of pain reliever and I got to sit in the bubble jet bathtub for over an hour - which was amazing! And while I continued to labor on, Matt and my family kept waiting... And waiting...Finally, after 60 hours of laboring, I received an epidural on Thursday morning. They broke my bag of water and gave me a lot of pitocin (to speed up the labor), but nothing worked and I was stuck at 7 cm. I think the contractions actually starting getting weaker because I was so fatigued. By Thursday evening, the midwife and I decided that we'd tried everything and it was time to have a c-section. Just after making that decision, the baby's heart rated dropped suddenly and things started to get really scary. They immediately put an oxygen mask on me, unhooked everything, and wisked me into the operating room. Before leaving the room, the baby's heart rate was back up (and it had been perfect every other time he'd ever been checked throughout the pregnancy.)

Silas,our big, strong, beautiful baby boy was born Thursday evening at 7:43 via c-section:


Unfortunately, Silas inhaled a large amount of meconium (concentrated poop in amniotic fluid)sometime during the labor/delivery process. And after a few seconds of crying, he stopped breathing. They put in a breathing tube and made plans to air-vac him to St. Joseph's Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU).

They brought Silas in to see me for a couple minutes:
and then he flew off in the helicopter to get better.

Silas is still in the NICU - but has been making very good progress. He started out on 100% supplemental oxygen - but is now only needs about 25%. They've been sucking the meconium and other secretions through the tube and are talking about the possibility of removing the breathing tube soon. He is on an antibioic drip to hopefully prevent infection (which is a high risk). The next challenge is for him to be able to eat and digest breast milk.


The nurses at Phoenix Baptist Hospital (where Silas was delivered) said there was a rumor on the floor that we named him 'Hercules" because of how big and strong he was. In the NICU, they had to sedate him a little to keep him from pulling the tubes out - something which most of the little premie babies there could never do! Yesterday, they had his arms swaddled up to keep them contained - but he still pulled an incredible hulk move to bust out of the swaddle.

Silas is certainly a fighter - and we have high hopes that he will be home with us soon. Thanks for all the love and support we've received from our families and friends. We'll work to keep posting photos and updates on the blog as they become available.

much love,
matt, julie and silas

Sunday, October 14, 2007

Almost there...


Here I am. (For all of you who haven't seen me in a while and are wondering what I look like 5 days away from my due date.) Actually, this picture does a pretty good job representing what has happened with me and all my maternity clothes - I can't hardly keep my pants up high enough or my shirts down low enough to cover that little gap of belly that always seems to find a way out! People always say I'm carrying really high. And most people think that means we have a little boy. But I'm not really sure. I guess we'll find out soon enough!

Leah decided she'd test out the infant car seat for us today. She was fast asleep when we first spied her in it - I guess it works!

So, I don't know if Steph appreciates me sharing this photo of both of us showing off our bellies and lounging on the couch eating ice cream bars...but I'm sharing it just the same because it is a perfect illustration of what you feel like doing when you're pregnant in Phoenix in the summer!